I want to keep living my life in my own home

Retired teacher Ann was diagnosed with cancer last year. She was supported at home by the team at the Marie Curie Hospice, West Midlands.

Occupational Therapy Technician, Jackie, worked with Ann to make sure she had the right support and practical equipment she needs at home to be able to live independently for as long as possible.

Patient Ann opening the door to Rehab Technition, Jackie, from the Marie Curie Hospice, West Midlands

It means very much to be here in my home

"This is where I’m used to being and I’ve got things how I like them to be. I’ve got a nice garden that I used to do myself, and now I have help with. Your home is your security.

"My parents were from South Wales originally and a lot of my family is still there. I love Wales, but my life’s here in the West Midlands now.

“When you get to a certain age, you become established in a certain area and you make your roots there. You’ve got your work, and that’s the way it is. It’s your home."

I have lots of pictures up around the house, including this one of my mother and me. 

A caring profession in teaching

"I’ve always worked in different aspects of education. I was a teacher in grammar and comprehensive schools teaching 11- to 18-year-olds, then a headteacher of comprehensive schools. My subject was history.

"The best thing about teaching was the children and the success they had. I loved working as a team, trying to make a difference. That’s what life’s about isn’t it? Getting people to fulfil their potential, wherever they begin.

"I would count teaching as a caring profession – public and social service. It’s not dissimilar to nursing in that sense."

Wide-ranging interests

"I’ve had dogs all my life until the last ten years – I miss having them around.”

One of my dogs, the handsome George.

George’s successor, Fly, with me in the garden.

"I like the theatre and the cinema. I spend a lot of time with my friends. I’ve always read a lot – poetry, literature, biography… Although I can’t concentrate on reading as well as I used to. Lately I’ve been reading Michelle Obama’s biography – she writes well.

"I’ve travelled, too. In the seventies I went on an educational studies tour to see schools in the States. I stayed with friends in Moscow in 2008, which I really enjoyed. I’ve travelled to most of Europe."

Adjusting to life with cancer

"I’ve only just started to have access to Marie Curie, but what’s become very evident is whatever I need, they will try to help me with. I’ve been to the hospice once before, so I know it’s a delightful place. It has a very good reputation locally.

"Rehab technician, Jackie, came to see me and went through my needs. She measured me up for all this equipment, which she’s now fitting for me in the house. Where would I be without her help? She’s wonderful.

Jackie helping me try out a stool for size.

"The Macmillan Nurse, Julie, came last week to tell me about the different things I can access at the hospice – aromatherapy and coffee mornings and things.

"I’ve got the list of courses, but I haven’t had a chance to digest it yet. But I’ll look to see if there’s anything I’m interested in. I don’t fancy arts and crafts though!"

"I’ve been on a bit of a rollercoaster. But I feel the hospice will be very flexible to meet my needs. I’m not sure yet what they will be, so we’ll just have to take it as it comes."

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